Any ideas are welcome.
Triple Check the Grounding at the Engine. (ie Neg side of your circuit)
You Say it Starts when Jumped,,,, "Wondering out loud",,,, When another 12VDC Source is added via a jumper cable or box lead they create another Path & source of Amps around your existing Neg Circuit.
Just a Random Thought,,,,,,
I am understanding your frustration.
Jim