Apply PB Blaster or Kroil to the threads a couple of times before trying to remove it. Good thing about having the head bolted up is having a pretty secure platform to wrench against. A brand name breaker bar with a cheater works fairly well, you can at least feel the torque you are putting on the plug. Don't use an El Cheapo Offshore - I wouldn't trust the steel or the temper. I used this routine on the plugs in an intake recently, took my time and liberally used PB Blaster on all of the threads, never broke a plug or a wrench. Older Craftsman breaker bars and extensions -
Regards,
Steve